This past weekend John came down and took the kids to his mother's sigh. I wish this didn't cause stress or drama but it does. John's mom is pissed that John and I are not together that i took him to  court for child support and that a year and a  half after we separated I had a baby girl with Mark. John moved his fiancee Stacie in before the kids and i even moved out so anything i do is a moot point.
When they have the kids at his mother's she bashes me and  Mark she even Drags Autumn and Nevaeh into it. She tells the kids that Autumn is not their sister.and so much more other crap.
Here is a letter I would love to send my ex monster inlaw but probably never will.

Rhonda,

I have had enough of your emotional abuse to my children seriously you would think someone so close to 60 would have grown up by now. You do realize you have a daughter by a different man than your oldest 2 children. Pot meet kettle you are BLACK . The only difference is that little certificate that says you and Ross are married but now a days their are more people not getting married and even if i was married lady that wouldn't be your business. I do realize your are a very bored house wife who has nothing to do all day but to read your bible and gossip to your Shediac clan. I am here to imform you Lady that you are in fact the hugest hypocrite I have ever met.  Your squirt out little things from your bible and interpet them to fit your life or your delusion of your life. No where in the bible is there any crap about lesbians or gays going to hell. Just because you don't agree with it doesn't mean shit. I am so glad not every person in this world is so full of self hatred as you are and so damn jealous of everyone around you that you feel the need to make rude comments Have some class oh that's right you are beyond class. I feel sorry for you and anyone who has to live with such an ugly woman as yourself. I don't care if you don't like the fact I am with Mark even if i was not with Mark I wouldn't be with John. You all need therapy lady. I do think it is sick that you are so delusional to the fact that you and your children are not perfect and that there are learning disabilities in your family. John has at least 2 but you were not naive to get him help. Your daughter Cheryl goes around telling people she has mental problems you should have had her checked out instead of being so proud that you allowed her to struggle. My sons have learning disabilities and I am not ashamed of them nor will i bury my head in the sand and not help them cope with there issues. You need to shut up and stop your bull shit lady.I don't care go fucking pray your stupidity away cause hunny it will never go away you were born to stupid.

we got a diagnosis

For 8.5 years have known something was different about my son Tyler some people would tell me oh he is a typical boy but they didn't spend alot of time with him. His own father would say oh no he is normal. So after 8.5 yrs Tyler has been diagnosed with Adhd,ptsd,Asperger's syndrome and possibly other learning disabilities. My son Dylan also has Adhd and possibly other learning disabilities and is developmentally delayed. Now just to start on the therapies.